Four male secret that every woman should know
Do you think that only women have their secrets that help them “win the hearts” of unsuspecting men? According to American psychologists, men are very cunning in matters mezhpolovyh relations, and in some they are even more “insidious” than women.
So, here are four basic facts about the features of the male mind, which will be useful to any woman in the “struggle” for personal happiness:
1. Men learn «Books for Women» and use their knowledge against you.
According to statistics, books such as “How to find love” or “How to seduce anyone for 10 days,” read mostly by women. The audience of such literature is 70% of insecure or desperate women, with the remaining 30% – are men who for their “hunt”.
“Unlike animals, men know how to read – and read everything written about them for women. They are easy to predict your expectations, and thus manipulate you “- leads the psychologist saying one of his patients, 28-year-old Tom.
The same Tom admits that studying women’s weakness, the men use them to take the woman “all”, and after may have never been manifested in the life of his beloved.
In general, if a man does surprises you, surrounded by attention and shows miracles of feelings in the first days of dating – that is no reason to wait for him to do something more.
2. Men – such as “hysteria”, as women.
He can not understand why you are experiencing because of the color of their handbag? Or wondering how you were hurt his slip of the tongue? Believe me, worrying over trifles – is not a purely female trait. Men also have their peculiarities, and if he will focus on some nonsense, it can be a cause for this hysteria.
The difference lies in the fact that a man who hides his concern than it recognize the woman. And these hidden emotions often manifest themselves in very strange behavior and reactions. For example, instead of directly saying “I’m annoyed that you have a long talk on the phone, he starts to slowly take revenge on you, do not pay attention to you, do not answer your calls and messages, etc. And since you’ll never guess , what he really hurt. It is better to directly ask, “Honey, what did I do wrong?” Or even wait until the hysteria will not end by itself. Otherwise the situation could reach the absurd and end parting.
3. The man never wants to “open relationship”.
Polygamy has long been considered a purely male preferences – and this has its own reasons. Even if a man constantly talks about the benefits of free relationships, praises polygamy and teases you to offer a lover, believe me – in fact he has in mind only himself.
Be sure that most men are simply afraid of the idea of polygamy, because he understands that if the “cheat”, he, as she and a male ego can not allow this. The feeling of possessiveness in men overpowers even the instinct of procreation.
“It sounds, maybe it’s cool, but in most cases it is just bragging,” I would in any case he did not want my girlfriend met someone else, and if a girl can be happy with who she is open changes She obviously does not suit me “- are recognized as men.
4. For male sex is not a reason for a serious relationship with a woman.
If the man openly invites you to an intimate relationship, you can be sure: no love or marital happiness you have with him will not.
Men just “appropriated” women a role – the beloved, a friend or a girl for one night – and move from one status to another is virtually impossible.
“When a guy offers female sex, it means just what he wants with her sexuality and nothing more,” – says another patient psychologist Anthony A.
In general, be agreeable to all – not the best strategy in winning the men, say psychologists. Most likely, your “sacrifice” will be adopted as a matter of course, and phone number will be forgotten the next day.
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